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“Stop Moaning and Work Harder” says William Hague

Foreign Secretary William Hague has said there is only one answer to Britain’s economic woes – hard work.

Is that what life is really about… are we really here just to work?  I recently watched a video by the American Poet Robert Bly, wherein he highlighted the breakdown in family life since the beginning of the Industrial Revolution when fathers had to leave the home every day, work long hours for not much money, came home hungry and cranky, and gradually became disconnected from his family due to long hours working in factories or down coalmines.

Today, of course, our working lives are quite different and there have been many improvements in working conditions, minimum wages etc., however, are we really designed to just work all our lives?  Is that the true meaning of life?

If so, then we are in deep doodoo!!

The financial collapse that we are experiencing right now is a testament to the shift that is taking place in the human psyche and unless we stop and consider our actions such as the somewhat STUPID comment by William Hague in today’s Telegraph, can we survive as a species at all… or have we simply become slaves to the financial system?  Aren’t most of us working ‘just to pay our bills’?  How many people in this country or indeed around the world today feel that we are simply existing, but not really living?

I’m not against hard work!  In fact, I know few people who have worked as hard as I have over the past 46 years.  My first job, at the age of 13, was in the Broomknoll Cafe in Airdrie where I worked a Saturday job from 8am until 6pm for the princely sum of 10 shillings (or 50 pence in today’s money).  Whilst studying at a local commercial college at the age of 16, I worked Thursday, Friday and Saturday evenings for 15/- (that’s 5 bob a night) and my ‘bonus’ was a fish supper to take home to the family every night (ie the leftovers)!

Today, I’m known for my meteoric rise in the property investment field, only to have an equally meteoric nosedive into bankruptcy after a certain High Street bank reneged on a multi-million pound property deal after exerting some very strenuous selling techniques to get the deal in the first place!!  This same bank, whilst announcing record PROFITS, has also recently announced the loss of 1400 jobs south of Hadrian’s Wall… why?  Because their image in England is not so popular any more.  I wonder why?  Of course, this particular bank is really owned by NAB in Australia, so one has to wonder why local businesses don’t simply stay LOCAL!!

‘Great Britain’ was once known for it’s innovation, it’s engineering prowess, it’s national health service, it’s entrepreneurial spirit.  Where did that go?  Now we’re being accused of not working hard enough?

I think we’ve all been HOODWINKED into thinking we were living in a free country.  It seems to be a free-for-all who wish to emigrate here, but the reality is that we are enslaved to a system that is run by an elite group of bankers and whose only motive is PROFIT!

We’ve watched for years as our manufacturing and export industries have dwindled.  We’ve witnessed the emigration of some of our brightest minds to the US or other countries where their skills have been exploited in return for a higher standard of living.

So, perhaps that’s what Mr Hague means when he tells us to get on a plane and go overseas, export overseas, study overseas.  After all, that’s what China and India are doing isn’t it?  Sending their brightest students to these shores to study, to copy and eventually to return to their own lands and EXPORT to UK!!

There’s no lack of strong work ethic in this country… but there is a serious lack of strong leadership.

Get A Life!

How often have you heard that phrase?  How often do you use it in relation to others?

At first glance, especially where I come from, this term is used in a derogatory fashion.  But what if you feel, at this stage in your life, that you really would like to ‘GET A LIFE’.

So many of us feel that life is challenging, drudgery, confusing and worrying.  What qualifies me to say that?  I’ve been there… I’m a Facebook addict and I AM interested in other people’s lives.

I see similarities within posts.  I notice how many people LIKE and SHARE positive, motivational words and pictures and I also pick up on the those who want to attack others for sharing such posts.  Why do we do that?  Indeed, why do we spend so much time on Social Media websites such as Facebook and Twitter?

Even though a huge percentage of my 3,886 FB ‘friends’ rarely share ANYTHING, I do get personal messages which indicate that they do read and often agree (and sometimes disagree) with my posts, yet they fail to comment or even ‘like’ the post, claiming that they don’t want the world to know what they’re thinking!!

Well, here’s what I think.  My hallucination is that we’re all pretty much scared right now.  We’re worried about what’s happening around the world.  We’re worried about the financial crisis.  We’re worried about the politicians’ decisions and how they will affect us.  We’re worried about the Arab Spring.  We’re worried about the energy crisis.  We’re worried about the education system.  We’re worried about the state of our Health Service (those of us who have one).  We’re worried about our pensions.

In fact, there’s not much that we ain’t worrying about today!!

So, with all those worries, how much of your life feels good?  How much joy do you experience on a daily basis?  How secure do you feel?  How confident are you about your business… your family… your health… your finances… your home life… your work?

The amount of time we spend online, searching and surfing the web for solutions, for answers, for inspiration is astronomical!!

I doubt that those of us who ‘live’ online these days will be able to back to those quiet, serene days when we didn’t have so much ‘chatter’ go on in our heads, without a fight.

So, wouldn’t it be prudent to start carefully selecting what we DO look at online?

Doubtless, there are a myriad of reasons for being the web.  More and more people are shopping online, teaching online, sharing, caring and scaring online.  More and more, we reach out to the great god Google for the answers we seek, be that news, recipes, fashion, therapists, insurance products, cars, homes, entertainment etc., the list goes on.

I’ve been discussing my own preferences for spending time online today with my marketing friend, and I have to admit that I am addicted and have been for years.  So, I see the internet as being an integral part of ‘my life’ today, whether I like it or not.  Thankfully, I do.

On contemplating my daily FB posts, it’s very evident that my passions in life are 1)  Great (not just good) health!!  2)  Finance – especially the misuse and abuse of the financial industry as we know it today (and the alternatives)!!  3)  All things spiritual – I do believe we are spiritual beings having a human, emotional experience.

So that explains what I’m doing online every day.  What’s your excuse?

Clare

PS I’ll be posting regular updates on my discoveries around Health, Wealth and Spirituality – but only if I think they’re worth passing on :)
PPS Thanks to Andy Singer for this very appropriate drawing :)

News From Down Under

It’s been a good few weeks since I posted a blog, so time to bring you up to speed with my adventures!

 

Since setting off from a cold and rainy Scotland on 2nd December 2011, little did I know what was to unfold.  My time in Ecuador was amazing… sometimes relaxing and contemplative… other times frenetic and exciting.

 

As well as spending some quality time in the beautiful, peaceful ‘Valley of Longevity’ or ‘Sacred Valley’ otherwise known as Vilcambamba, my lovely travelling companion Dawn and I felt we could not travel this far without visiting the much admired Galapagos Islands.  So, we set off on a bit of an adventure and travelled a little bit further into the Pacific Ocean and spent sometime on Santa Cruz and Isla Isabella (home of the giant Turtles).  Those of you who are connected with me on Facebook can see some of the photographic memoirs I was fortunate enough to collect.

 

But now, it’s time to ‘fess up!!  After a very brief (5 day) return home for Christmas with my boys, I set off again on yet another adventure… this time heading a little bit further south… well, to the other side of the planet to be precise, and I’m now writing this blog from Noosa, Queensland, Australia. Continue reading

Wild Ponies, Dead Cows and Stray Dogs

A bit of an unusual title I know, but this was just a small part of our experiences as we climbed another 1500ft above sea level from Vilcabamba in Southern Ecuador (Elev: 1500) to the ancient city of Cuenca (Elev: 3000ft) further north.

 

The main route from Loja would have been much more enjoyable were it not accompanied by the most torrential downpours causing landslides every few miles, around which our driver, Carlos (aka Speedy Conzales), had to navigate in an attempt to avoid the resulting potholes!!

 

I was amazed with the amount of Indigenous Ecuadorian women walking along the side of this fast road with babies tied in shawls slung on their backs and tiny toddlers holding their hands as they walk towards the oncoming traffic.

 

The roads are pretty wide with a very narrow ‘walking zone’ so it wouldn’t take much for a small child to dash in front of the oncoming (very fast) traffic.  It seems a slight tap on the horn is enough to warn pedestrians and dogs, that Speedy’s coming through!!

 

Some spectacular views were indeed breathtaking, but only when the sun broke through and the rain stopped (which was not very often), so much of my attention was taken up with gazing out the front window from my center seat just behind the driver.  Now I know why they all have Rosary Beads having from the rear view mirrors!!

 

What really shocked me though, apart from the plethora of seemingly stray dogs roaming around in the towns that we passed through as well as out in the middle of nowhere, was the sight of a young cow that had either been struck by a vehicle or had slipped into the deep camber at the side of the road.  There was no ‘mess’ as such and it was clearly dead, but no-one was around which made look as though the poor thing had been wandering on the roadway by itself.  Cows here can be seen tethered at the side of the roads where there are no fences but many of them do seem to roam freely.

 

 

 

 

By far the most frightening sight was when a beautiful young wild horse, clearly terrified, almost brought the traffic in both directions to a stop as it tied to get to safety.  At one point it was between our car and an oncoming bus.  Heartstopping moments I can tell you.  No-one stopped and our last view was of the poor wee thing trying to climb up to safety but it didn’t look as it was having much success.

 

There’s a callousness among the drivers here and a distinct lack of safety.  Or am I being paranoid?  Without doubt, we live in a cotton-wool society where we can hardly sneeze without some government prevention initiative being introduced to help stop spreading germs!!

 

4 hours… and a lot of broken nerves later, we arrived at our destination.  Today will be a time to relax and enjoy the scenery before heading off on the next leg of our South American adventure.  Meantime, I’m enjoying my Vitalitad Smoothie in Cafe Austria, with Cafe del Mar music in the background and people bustling around outside.  Pure dead brilliant, so it is!!

 

Watch out for Iguanas and Giant Turtles in my next blog!

 

Clare

PS  I love being a traveller on the highway of life!!

 

FAST RELEASE OF NEGATIVE EMOTIONS

In today’s somewhat stressful environment, more and more people are turning to alternative therapies to help them cope with everyday challenges at work and with their business and personal relationships.

 

Having dipped my toe in the waters with Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP), with Brain Train Academy last year, I can think of no better trainer in EmoTrance (see full description below) than my good friend and personal therapist Dawn Flockhart.  (Yes, we all need a helping hand to get over some of life’s hurdles occasionally).

 

Some of my ‘Richbrits’ subscribers are already very familiar with Dawn’s work and the fact that so many of us regularly meet up at similar events – synchronistically – this tells me that you may very well be interested in taking a closer look at this incredibly powerful ‘emotional release’ technique that I KNOW works extremely well and extremely quickly.

 

EmoTrance practioner certification

Cost: £300 (price includes all course materials, globally recognized certification & membership to Sidereus Foundation). Cost to repeat this course: £75

 

Dates: 26-27 November 2011, 10am-5pm

 

Venue: Novotel Edinburgh Centre, 80 Lauriston Place, Edinburgh, EH3 9DE (FREE SPA Facilities)

 

Trainer: Dawn Flockhart

 

Course Overview:  Explode Your Healing Powers!

 

EmoTrance is the latest tool from the field of Energy Psychology and is universally acknowledged as the breakthrough in working with energy, emotion, state and behaviour for the new millennium. It is logical, beautifully designed and a joy to use, as well as being amazingly powerful and effective.

 

An OUTSTANDING new healing modality for mind-body healers / Re-awaken your existing powers of moving energy by intention. / Completely holistic, natural, ecological and incredibly easy to learn. / A powerful tool for magic & reality creation. / Discover the enlightened states of your inner yogi or Buddha.

 

Change: Depression into JOY / Bereavement into LOVE / Anxiety into DELIGHT / Sadness into LAUGHTER / Apathy into HIGH ENERGY / Anger into BLISS / Live the life you want……and finally find your SELF. Emotional Transformation has become a major success in the UK due to the simple and very effective way in which you can apply it to all areas of your life. EmoTrance is an amazing technique, not just for therapists – but for everyone!

 

Course Content: Day 1 – Healing & Self Help Workshop – This course is open to the general public who wish to learn the basic EmoTrance technique, as well as therapists wishing to continue on to Practitioner level. This Introductory level offers a thorough introduction to the subject with demonstrations and exercises to experience EmoTrance yourself and on others.

 

Learn the basic EmoTrance technique and discover just how good you can feel
Add sparkle & joy to your life, become a master of your emotions
Releasing limiting beliefs – transform negativity into energised states
Meet your Creative Template and perfect your ‘Even Flow’
Successful completion of the workshop will provide you with a Certificate of Attendance and contributes towards CPD requirements.

 

Course Content:  Day 2 - EmoTrance Practitioner Certification – This course is suitable for anyone wishing to advance their knowledge and skills in EmoTrance and covers all essential techniques and requirements needed to practice professionally.

 

Importance of energy nutrition
The Client/Therapist co-joint healing process
EmoTrance by telephone
Identifying & releasing shields & barriers
Resistant & old injuries
Elegant ways to speed up the healing process
Healing Circles
Expanding your practice
Successful completion of the workshop will provide you with a Certificate to Practice EmoTrance and includes a £25 annual membership to the Sidereus Foundation. The course contributes towards CPD requirements.

 

You can book via the website or email Dawn direct… details and links below and please check out the video testimonial I sent to Dawn following her 5 day NLP course in September last year:

 

Brain Train Academy – Coaching, Mentoring & Training Specialists – Office: 31 Argyle Place, Edinburgh, EH9 1JT – Mob: 07967 020101 or email Dawn on dawn@braintrainacademy.co.uk
www.braintrainacademy.co.uk

 

 
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I love inspirational quotes and read a few every day. Most people enjoy being inspired by the wisdom of others and it often helps us get back on track when we feel tired, drained or hopeless.

 

This page is dedicated to a selection of my favourites… some wise, some funny… enjoy!

 


 

Happy are those who dream dreams and are ready to pay the price to make them come true. – Leon Joseph Suenens

 

Wherever you go, go with all your heart. – Confucius

 

You can never cross the ocean unless you have the courage to lose sight of the shore. – Christopher Columbus

 

Happiness is the best face lift. Nobody ever drowned in his own sweat. – Ann Landers

 

Think of the beauty still left around you and be happy.  If you spend your whole life waiting for the storm, you’ll never enjoy the sunshine. – Morris West

 

People can live one hundred years without really living a minute. Live your life in the manner that you would like your kids to live theirs. – Michael Levine

 

How to THRIVE in Turbulent Times

I don’t have a product to ‘sell’ but I do have important information to pass on and what you can expect from this BLOG is information that will guide you to creating more of what you desire in your life… be that monetary wealth, wisdom, knowledge or clarity.

 

My aim is to pass on my view on life in the 21st century and guide you towards identifying who you really are and to accepting your true power and ability to manifest whatever you desire for your life.

 

I can’t think of a better way to start my personal blog than introducing my ‘tribe’ to the Worldwide Tipping Point Movement…. please read the following introduction to Todd Goldfarb’s incredible vision…

 

Dear Friends,

Are you like millions of people from all over the world who are feeling an accelerated tension on the Planet? Have you been watching with curiosity and amazement the viral spread of movements like the Arab Spring and Occupy Wall Street?

 

If you are anything like me, your inquisitiveness about what is happening is at an all-time peak, and the purpose of this website is simple:

To ask the most interesting and timely questions to some of the most fascinating people on the Planet!

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